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Kumbh Mela 2013: Lost and Found

There is a stubborn rumour here at the Kumbh Mela that some people come to abandon elderly female relatives and children in the crowd.

There are two lost and found camps on site, one of which is run by 86-year-old Raja Ram Tiwari, who took the initiative after seeing an old woman weeping uncontrollably at the Mela once she had become separated from her family. That was in 1946, he was in his teens, and he and his friends helped reunite her with her people. He’s been doing the same ever since, and his son Umesh is gradually taking over from him.

Raja Ram Tiwari runs a lost and found camp at the Kumbh Mela. Photo: Ravinder Bawa.

Shiv Kumari, a 70-year-old widow who has been at the camp for going on 24 hours, is distraught. She came to Allahabad on a bus with a group of relatives from her village, and lost sight of them while the baggage was being unloaded. She made her way to the Mela and the Tiwaris’ camp, from where she broadcast a tearful plea to her family to come and collect her.

Shiv Kumari is lost. Photo: Laura Spinney.

Since January 13, Raja Ram Tiwari says, over 10,000 people have passed through his camp, most of whom were eventually “found” with the help of the festival-wide PA system (in the past, volunteers roamed around shouting information about the lost person through tin cans). Only two elderly men and six elderly women could not be placed to date, he says, and they have been sent home to their villages by train. When asked if they might have been abandoned by their families, he laughs and dismisses the idea. Vinita Bahuguna, who runs the other lost and found camp next door, reacts similarly.

But Delhi-based women’s rights activist Mohini Giri, who used to chair India’s National Commission for Women, says that abandonment of widows of all ages, and of female children, is a problem countrywide—though it has decreased a lot over the last 10 years. One reason it’s not spoken about, she says, is that many people consider it a holy deed and a family’s personal choice.

A particular hotspot is Benares, Giri says, because Hindus believe that anyone who dies in that holy city goes straight to heaven. She estimates that there are 10,000 abandoned women on the streets of Benares. It happens at the Kumbh Mela too, she says, for a similar reason, and some women are left to beg in Allahabad or nearby cities long after the pilgrims have departed.

Comments

  1. shiva Bhuwai
    Lamahi, Dang, Nepal
    February 12, 2013, 12:25 am

    pleas help to find the my relatives , who is lost now in kumba mela, Her detail is as follow
    Name: Utradebi budhathoki
    Age : 60 years
    Address: Lamahi, Dang, Nepal
    if u find please contact: 009779857840517,009779857831027

  2. shiva Bhuwai
    Lamahi, Dang, Nepal
    February 12, 2013, 12:09 am

    my relative also lost in kumba mela please help to find
    detail of missing people
    Name: utradebi budhathoki
    Address: Lamahi, Dang, nepal
    Age: 60 years

  3. Dhananjay Singh
    Kumbh Mela Allahabad
    February 8, 2013, 3:05 am

    if you are searching some one who is missing in kumbh mela allahabad, you may find him on http://www.datanetedu.com/lostfound

  4. jamal khan
    delhi
    February 5, 2013, 2:49 pm

    i was stationed at Haridwar KUMBH MELA 2010

    Same situation was there, people were begging to help to fiend there famlys and relative,

    i had shot a series of photo feture on this subject,

    would like to share with all of you

  5. Kumar
    Mumbai
    January 28, 2013, 10:24 am

    Being to Kumb Mela, and taken old women to the ‘Lost & Found’ camps, speaking to the lady and offering money to return back to village from where she came, it was shocking to know that she did not know the district she came from. She did not know how to return home , that to a lady of 55 yr age. With education changing the picture, Kumbh mela’s down next 20 yrs will have better educated old ladies.
    http://www.kumbhmela.info